Many of you may have had questions that you wanted to ask but were afraid to ask of your gay friends. This post is in response to some of those questions. After Jacob and I celebrated our wedding in Massachusetts last year and our commitment ceremony here in Texas, I had many a question from [...]
Top 5 Lessons Learned from Olivia Newton-John’s Films/Music
Yesterday, one of the most important women of my childhood celebrated a birthday–Olivia Newton-John. (This would have been posted yesterday, but my hosting server crashed. My apologies, Olivia!) I imagine there are many gay men who also fell in love with ONJ in their youths. Not only was she beautiful but she was amazingly talented, [...]
Top 5 Reasons People Choose to be Gay by FCKH8.com
I ran across this video from an activist organization aptly named FCKH8. (Visit their website by clicking here.) The video’s message is strongly worded and if you are easily offended by vulgarity, then you shouldn’t watch it, and, well, if you are, you probably won’t be reading this post anyway, so my warning is probably [...]
When Children Become Super Villains!
I love my daughter. More than anything or anyone else in this entire world. There are days when my love for my daughter fills me so completely that I sometimes feel like I could actually fly. When we car dance to a song playing on the radio on the way to school and I hear [...]
NY Archbishop’s Veiled Threat: Gay Marriage Equals Church-State Conflict
New York Catholic Archbishop Timothy Dolan, in a letter sent to the Obama Administration on Friday, threatens that if Obama continues to withhold support for DOMA or a federal ban on gay marriage that it could “precipitate a national conflict between church and state of enormous proportions.” The Archbishop’s veiled threat intrigues me. Is there [...]
Jesus at a Gay Bar
First of all, I would like to thank Jacob for allowing me be a guest writer on his blog. Second of all, this topic is one near and very dear to my heart. I firmly believe that if Jesus Christ were to return to earth that he would not be hanging at the big mega [...]
What to Wear? What to Wear?
As some of you may or may not know, Fashion Week in New York City has ended. Right now, fashionistas all over the nation are scrambling to add the unique couture they watched sashay down the runway into their already overcrowded closets. While I am certainly not a fashionista (by any stretch of the imagination), I [...]
Allergic to Marital Aids?
I’m sure many of you are wondering about the topic of this blog post today? Is he referring to being allergic to couple’s counseling or something else? It couldn’t possibly be what I think it is. Could it? Well, it is! Recently, thanks to a light-hearted and quite comical conversation with a dear sweet friend who [...]
DADT Repealed 9/20/2011
Finally, after too many years of hiding and living in secret, Don’t Ask Don’t Tell is over. A letter distributed to troops today made the repeal official to soldiers on American soil and abroad. (click here to read the letter as reported in The Washington Post). The letter, signed by Raymond T. Odiemo, General of [...]





Ann Coulter: It’s Okay to Boo a Soldier
No doubt, many of you have already heard about the audience, who booed a gay soldier, at the GOP debate. The soldier in question, Stephen Hill, serves in Iraq and asked the panel if, elected president, they “plan[ned] to circumvent the progress that has been made for gay and lesbian soldiers in the military?” At [...]